Wednesday, December 9, 2009

What's In a Female Friend

                          So Through my 22 years of life i have had two girls Ive called my best friend for the last 8 years of my life their names are Nicole and LaTeesha. Ive ofcourse trusted many girls in between who ended up showing me they didnt deserve the trust I gave them. They are not the point nor my actual best friends I have mentioned, My question in this blog is simply "Whats in a female friend?" Someone  you can trust and tell secrets to, or maybe someone you can truly express yourself to, someone who knows your deepest insecurites? Or someone who knows you better than you know yourself, maybe even someone who you want better things for than you want for yourself! This I really dont know I think with some girls life itself is a competetion and therefor they will never have a "true" best friend because jealously and envy will soon ruin any relationship its present in...I quess I have my own outlook on what a bestfriend should be, because even on Sex and The City Carrie has had trials and tribulations with the rest of the ladies...So ofcourse a drama free 100% happy best friendship is not in exsistance...but is atleast 99% to much to ask.....?  Until this is answered I'll be my own VERY BEST FRIEND 100%

1 comment:

  1. I have the same issue as you! I have come to realize that there is a friend for different aspects of your life. I have 4 best friends, one is who i can call at anytime of day no matter what, one for man issues, one for moral support, one for girls night out. They all are great, they know each other, and are all good friends all around for anything, but I have determined who i can depend on more for certain things. Truly my boyfriend is one of my best friends bc we live together and he knows me inside and out but, being the boyfriend, not all things can be shared. LOL